This piece of advice is something that I came up with myself many years ago. From my personal observations of family dynamics and structures, one feature stood out to me. It is also something that I am seeing other people say in YouTube video comments more often now.
Be careful who you choose to have children with.
In so many situations and cases, whether they are true crime, family tragedies or just everyday, average family drama, one thing is certain. When you have a child with someone, whether you are married to that person, having a fling or one night stand, or it’s a case of no marriage, or multiple marriages and partners, etc. You will be tied to that person through your child. I swear that a lot of people never think about this.
Too often, children are born into situations where they are hated by their parents’ families or the parents themselves because of who the other parent is. It is ridiculous and absolutely pathetic, but it happens, more frequently than what is talked about.
This is something that transcends any ethnicity, country, or culture boundary. Children end up being in messes that they did not have ANYTHING to do with and must sort out within themselves and their lives. All because parents are reckless or not careful with who they are having kids with. Please note, I am writing about relationships in which both parties are willing participants and nothing is forced or coerced on either party.
These are my thoughts about this. I hope everyone has the ability to truly heed this advice.
Maria Mocha
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